Hard social feelings to write about!
First of all what is Belief?!
It is a state of mind. (Discussion about mind will be endless and I am not capable enough to discuss, even.) State of mind that expects something or someone(most of the times someone) will act as you predicted. We, in our life, predict anything based on our previous experiences about any particular thing. So, belief is nothing but predictions, based on our past experiences. This applies to common man (Common man, I mean: Human with commonly accepted aptitudes and attitudes), at least.
What is Trust?
So far, what I know is, trust and belief are synonyms. But, now I feel, there should be a subtle difference that makes a huge difference in meaning and in contexts they should be used. Belief, should be something confined to any particular instance, issue or atribute and trust is for something big and rise over a long period. May be, belief is the building block of trust.
Now the hardest feeling for understanding! "FRIENDSHIP".
In handful of occasions, I happened to think about friendship. And at every time, it really refined my definition of friendship. I used to think, how one, who is no way related to you by blood means, could be so close and make you share things that you don't even share with your wife.! What makes friendship, such a relationship? Is it trust, belief or something else?
????? Answer form me is, I DON'T KNOW.
But, one thing, it is all a function of time apart from various other variables! Belief transform in to trust over a period of time. Likewise friendship strengthens as time goes on. As you get the result, what you have predicted, for a long period of time, makes you to feel some sort of understanding. (Too late for me to understand this!!)
Last week, during early hours of morning, some thought appeared in my mind, It is not a dream, since I did have control over it, I was able to change and think and control my thoughts, so it is not a dream and I remembered the whole thing. Here it goes,
The world is a Quantum mechanical system. Everything is a measure of probability and nothing is so called certain. You believe what you have experienced so far. Every time you receive a output of an experiment or an incident, it would be added to your readings.....When you have to make decision, analogous to predict the outcome of an quantum experiment, you go through all those data sets (incidents, situations in which those happened and eventually outcomes) and try to pick the one with highest probability...So far, I think I am k. In order to make conclusions about a quantum system, quantum physicists, repeats the same experiment and make a probability distribution function to predict the system behaviour. Thus achieving, their predictions to be correct most of the times (probability of making correct decisions, about a system, to 1, requires lots of repetitions of any particular experiment). The same applies to our life as well. We examines each and every situation and incidents going on in our life and use them as data sets, using which we extrapolate to new situations and environments.
Here, I have a question, What if, you have only bitter experiences ( analogous to incorrect experiments: which are results of our own mistakes in setting up the system )? Wouldn't it impact the way of your extrapolation or prediction?! Yes, it should do!
Concluding, Friendship develops over a period of time and not in an instance. But, of course, there are exceptions!
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